I hang around women all the time that seem to think that they have FOREVER to find happiness. When often times, forever never comes. They think to themselves if they could only look a certain way, lose a certain amount of weight, basically, change something in their body, it would then bring happiness. As I get older I realize I have set myself these same unrealistic ideas. I have passed up opportunities to frolic on the beach in a bikini, wear the little red hot dress, flirt with the hot guy next to me and dance the night away. Lacking the ability to enjoy who I was at that moment made me shut down and not live many happy moments that came across my way. This makes me very sad . I wish that all women could see themselves as worthy of happiness regardless shapes and sizes. When men are unhappy they attack the world and women, on the other hand attack themselves. Notice that men, allow vast limits to their personal handling of their disatisfactin as for us, we limit all our grunges on our frames.
If we could only realize that it's not the perfect figure or face that generates joy! Happiness is a frame of mind and you can chose to be happy at 300 Lbs just as easy as at a size 0. Some of the women that I have met, who have spent their live striving for perfection, whether it would be plastic surgery or killing themselves at the gym 7 days of the week are some of the saddest people you will ever meet. So it should not be our looks that should be our focus, it should be happiness itself.
I heard a quote once from a very wise older woman who sad, youthfulness is wasted in the young! So wherever you are in the ladder of life, smile, be happy and realize life will be gone in an instant and at the end all that would have mattered is how much fun you had along the way.
I know without a doubt that one day we will all look back and say... we should have danced the dance.
Michelle Heavens
If we could only realize that it's not the perfect figure or face that generates joy! Happiness is a frame of mind and you can chose to be happy at 300 Lbs just as easy as at a size 0. Some of the women that I have met, who have spent their live striving for perfection, whether it would be plastic surgery or killing themselves at the gym 7 days of the week are some of the saddest people you will ever meet. So it should not be our looks that should be our focus, it should be happiness itself.
I heard a quote once from a very wise older woman who sad, youthfulness is wasted in the young! So wherever you are in the ladder of life, smile, be happy and realize life will be gone in an instant and at the end all that would have mattered is how much fun you had along the way.
I know without a doubt that one day we will all look back and say... we should have danced the dance.
Michelle Heavens
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